After countless friends coming to me with relationship
problems, I began thinking that there was just no hope in a couple being happy
nowadays. However after some serious pondering and some heavy doses of sappy
chick flicks, I have found the answer.
When a friend comes to me and asks me if her relationship is
worth it anymore, I ask her about the future she sees with that guy. Many
people will start their relationships thinking hey that guy is pretty cool. I think he would treat me great! There
obviously is no problem with that, considering all those intense feelings
haven’t been developed yet! However, once the relationship has been
established, it’s time to think about the future of the relationship. If there
are constant problems in the relationship, you have to ask yourself if you see
yourself being with this person for long term.
Now that we are growing up, it’s time to start thinking a
bit more seriously about relationships.
When you date, it is important to see that person as a potential spouse.
What is the point of dating if you see no future with that person? None. Isn’t
the purpose of dating? To find a spouse? I do not see a reason why a person
should essentially waste their time with a person they do not see a future
with. I know that we are only 18, but still, some of us have been in the dating
game for a few years now, and we pretty much know what we want in a person. If
the person you are dating is not your ideal man or woman, what is the use of
dating? If you know it’s not working, it’s time to get out. There’s no point in
staying with something your heart isn’t completely in. I know that it may be
hard to end, but at the end of the day, it is the right thing to do.
If you cannot see yourself marrying the person you date, why
even date? It just makes sense to have that companionship with a person you
believe is your soulmate.